When Kids Call the Shots

When Kids Call the Shots

How to Seize Control From your Darling Bully-- and Enjoy Being A Parent Again

Paperback - 2015
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Are your kids pummeling you with demands and bossing you around with impunity? Have your once-precious preschoolers become rebellious, entitled, and disrespectful to authority? How did we get here? What went wrong? While there are plenty of so-called experts who might try to validate your convictions that you have done all you can to "fix" your "difficult" children, the hard truth is, they're not doing you any favors by placing the responsibility solely on your children.Parenting struggles rarely originate from just one side. Instead, they erupt at the volatile intersection of a child's personality with a parent's own insecurities and behaviors. To put it another way, if you want to fix your rebellious and disrespectful child, you need to start by fixing yourself. In When Kids Call the Shots, therapist and parenting expert Sean Grover untangles the forces driving family dysfunction, and helps parents assume their leadership roles once again. Parents will discover:* Three common bullying styles used by kids* Parenting styles that contribute to power balances* Critical testing periods in a child's development* Coping mechanisms that backfire* Personalized plans for calmly exerting authority in any scenario* And much more!The solution to any problem begins with learning to control what you can control. In parenting, you've already learned how impossible it is to control your kids. So begin by controlling you!
Publisher: New York : American Management Association, [2015]
ISBN: 9780814436004
Characteristics: viii, 214 pages ; 23 cm


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Oct 01, 2015

This book deals with help for parents who have gone from adoring their children to fearing them. Anti-bullying is big now and there is even a Pinkshirt day to show support for people who need the courage to stand up to bullies. But, what if it is your child who is bullying you? This is where Sean Gover comes in with this book. It is a comprehensive "How-to" guide for such parents. If you see yourself in this situation the book is ideal for you. Try it before you invest lots of money on other solutions such as counseling.


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