Handbook for An Unpredictable Life

Handbook for An Unpredictable Life

How I Survived Sister Renata and My Crazy Mother, and Still Came Out Smiling (with Great Hair)

Paperback - 2015
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Rosie Perez first caught our attention with her fierce dance in the title sequence of Do the Right Thing and has since defined herself as a funny and talented actress who broke boundaries for Latinas in the film industry. What most people would be surprised to learn is that the woman with the big, effervescent personality has a secret straight out of a Dickens novel. At the age of three, Rosie's life was turned upside down when her mentally ill mother tore her away from the only family she knew and placed her in a Catholic children's home in New York's Westchester County. Thus began her crazily discombobulated childhood of being shuttled between othe Home,o where she and other kids suffered all manners of cruelty from nuns, and various relatives' apartments in Brooklyn. This unstable lifestyle forced a precocious kid to become a fiercely independent young woman, and eventually inspired her to perform, an obvious escape hatch. This story traces her life from Brooklyn and othe Home,o to the early days of her career on film and TV sets and the LA and New York City hip-hop scenes of the 1980s and '90s.

In anyone else's hands, this might be considered a omisery memoir,o but Rosie's inimitable voice makes this the heartfelt, riveting, raw, funny, and inspirational story of a woman who has finally found a place of strength and peace.
Publisher: New York : Three Rivers Press, [2015]
Edition: 1st paperback edition.
ISBN: 9780307952400
Characteristics: xi, 322 pages, 8 unnumbered pages of plates : illustrations (some color) ; 21 cm


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Jul 30, 2018

This book is one of the best books I have ever read. I wondered throughout the entire book how she didn't cause any harm to herself. Rosie Perez is a survivor, and the stuff she went through growing up has made me admire her greatly for her strength and her courage.

Dec 23, 2016

Her childhood was extremely sad - having a mother with Schizophrenia and a Nun who beats the living daylights out of poor "Wosie" at the Children's Home. I cried with some of the paragraphs I read and I love her writing style; like's she's talking to you or writing in her journal- very warm and personal♥

This book grips you from the start. If you are a lover of non-fiction, biographies, add this book to your list of Must-Reads!

Oct 18, 2015

I have ABSOLUTELY, ALWAYS loved and admired Rosie!! Now I know absolutely why!! AMAZING book about a wonderfully, REAL woman of color!! Loved it!!!

Aug 21, 2014

An amazing story of surviving a dysfunctional family/home life. She is an amazing actress. What is also amazing to me is that she forgave her mentally ill mother and still has contact with some of her half brothers and sisters considering how some of them treated her. But then again, that has always been her forgiving nature.

Rosie, congratulations on your recent spur of the moment marriage. Much success in your future endeavors.

Aug 18, 2014

Rosie is amazing to gave come out of the cards she was dealt with. I met her in 2004 in NY at the ASPCA. She was there with a few people, thinking back, perhaps her family. Well I was there crying because I had to put my senior dog down and I was alone. She came over to me, sat next to me and just began consoling me, rubbing my back and even offered me some of her chocolate bar. I looked up and couldn't believe it was her next to me. That was such an amazing, tenderhearted moment that made me respect her more as a person. Thank you Rosie, I never forgot that moment.

Mo18_0 Aug 15, 2014

I loved reading this book, at times it was very sad because of the abuse. I admire that Rosie wrote this book to show everyone what's behind that smile and those dimples.Rosie writes about the struggles that she went through and all the hardships. Glad that she was able to forgive her Mom and create a bond with her father. I never would have imagined that she had gone through all that she went through.

Monuu Jul 21, 2014

This memoir was pretty good. I wouldn't have thought that by her bubbly and fun personality that she went through so much growing up. I liked how she admitted to having problems with certain celebrities without trying to put them down, she's a very mature woman. I like/love Rosie Perez more after reading her memoir.

fasttom Jun 16, 2014

Rosie Perez's autobiography was the heartbreaking story of a girl who just wanted to be loved by family. I read three fourths of the book and found child abuse by St. Joseph's Home and her mother were too sad and disturbing to read. I think it was important to Ms. Perez to reveal all that she suffered. It is amazing that she overcame a lot of obstacles in her life and was successful with her career.

JMFlaherty May 19, 2014

I had a ( genuinely) crazy mother too so I know what that's like. Different stories, but still, soul sisters. Thanks for writing the book Rosie.


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Oct 18, 2015

"And there was an order she brought instantly to the house that felt safe and light. Some of the girls didn't like her. Maybe it was because she was so sure of herself that they mistook that as arrogance. I think it was because she demanded the best from us constantly, in regards to our character and ability, without fear or intimidation--that's powerful." -Rosie of House Mother


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